Because Blogger's "Adult warning" often goes into a perpetual loop (isn't working properly), I will be making all new posts at my WordPress blog. You can follow it even if you do not have a WordPress Account. There're also my Twitter and my Tumblr blog, my Facebook and my Google+ page and my group.
(Update: Blogger hasn't fixed its problem with the "adult warning". Will go back to posting at my WordPress blog)

Sunday, December 7, 2014


I can't help looking at this guy and thinking, hey, he's nice.   I wouldn't mind if ....

And yet, how many apparently handsome blokes do you find who are arrogant and selfish and narcissistic?  And whose looks are spoilt because of it?  In the end, looks go away; you get old and your flesh sags and you lose your hair and your face gets lined with the travails of life.   But your character remains: whether you are kind and generous; whether you have a sense of humour; whether you are a pleasure to be with, even when, especially when, you aren't in bed.  Those things last, and as I get older I find that they have become more important to me in the ppl I connect with.