Ben Cohen

A gay-friendly British (former) rugby player.  He's 100% straight himself, but is happy to have gay admirers, and he's also working against homophobic bullying, starting the StandUp Foundation when he retired from rugby.

I strongly suspect that "straight" men who react badly to gayness are themselves uncertain about their sexuality.   Someone utterly confident in his maleness can be easy with gay blokes and gay causes.  And he can show his so-called "feminine" side by loving his child.